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Why Doesn’t My Husband Turn Me On?


I have been married four years now, no children. My husband is the first and only man I have ever been with. I feel like I am a very sexual person but I don’t want my husband. He is predictable and boring, he doesn’t like to try anything out of the ordinary positions and I never get the O during sex. It starts out okay sometimes but then I get bored and basically just wait till its over. I have tried talking to him but he says its just in my head and I need to sort through it. He is always ready but I just consider it a hassle anymore. It’s no fun for me. I start to think that I’m missing out on what else is out there especially when other guys give me attention. I love my husband so much, I trust him completely and we have great communication but I can’t get over this sex thing. I want one enjoyable sex experience in my life! I feel it would be selfish to leave a good thing for this and now he wants kids, I don’t know what to do…

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Pregnant On The Pill?


I’ve been taking the 3 month pill for close to 2 years now. I’m not very good at taking them at the same time everyday and me and my boyfriend have sex regularly. Does anyone know what the chances of me getting pregnant are? Or when a good time to take a test is? Its hard for me to know since I have to wait a month and a half for my next period. If there are any people that may have any information please help. The reason I’m concerned is because I have been feeling nauseous the last few days but I am not sure if its affiliated with that. Anything will help. Thanks!

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What Would Make You Think That Someone Is A Mut/slut Or A Man Whore/whore?


I know this probably seems weird but I love discussions like this, we all have our views about things and part of me just wanted to talk about them. I never mean to offend anyone and if you don’t think you can talk about this then don’t. but my views always seem so different from other people and they even change over time. but right now I consider things even for men and women and always have, when i was younger the way I looked at things like this was much stronger then now. Back then I never understood other people I always thought “why even date anyone right now it’s not going to last we are so young” always seemed to me in school everyone was dating and it always seemed so stupid to me, there’s no way your going to be with the girl you dated in the 4th grade, 6th grade, heck probably not even in high school at all. isn’t the point of dating to be with someone for the rest of your life isn’t that the point of all relationships? and dating so young there is almost no way your going to find the one. Although to me that would be something amazing to be with someone that long if something like that could happen I would be in shock and awe of those two. With me I always wanted to do nothing intimate with anyone but my future wife I knew she was out there somewhere and I waited to remain faithful until I met her even if she doesn’t know me yet, I knew we’d meet one day I never wanted to tell another girl I love you, I never wanted to kiss another girl, I never wanted to do anything sexual with anyone but her, and I still feel that way today. I want to be completely faithful, but I learned in a world like this that would be nearly impossible. My views were so strong for so long things started to loosen up when I was 16 and half, then I met the world and I started to realize things were probably not going to work the way I imagined to me if I kept on thinking the way I did I would think badly of almost anyone. To me sex was something you only did with someone you love but then there are the people who have one night stands, who have sex with multiple people, have an open relationship, or have sex with someone you don’t love. yes I know a lot of the world does the things I will say but it’s just how I feel to me those people are whore’s even having an affair or cheating makes me think that person would be too, what one person not enough for you? to me even having sexual relations with too many people (sexual relations meaning anything at all considered sexual) does the same, if you can’t count that number of people on one hand that is. there are two kinds of whores and man whores to me, there are the literal whores who get paid for sex then there are the people who take sex to too much of an extreme by my means. but my views split for me and others I kept the views when I was younger for me only and hopefully my future wife but that’s probably not going to happen. to me having flings (flings meaning anything romantic with someone you just met or don’t love ie. kissing, dirty dancing etc.) makes you go towards being a mut/slut (yes mut is man form of slut sorry for being kindergarten here but women have a word that always slanders them and men don’t) With the way I use to think people like that I didn’t even consider people at all, now I do I just don’t like them or like to be around them or anyone affiliated with them at all. for myself though my views are harsher on me if i could ever shift my views more like this dating world I would only be able to have sex with two people but for the rest of my life I would regret doing that, I want to wait till marriage and it’s hard to be with someone who didn’t because most likely they won’t want to. but even in a situation like that things would be hard for me I always just figured my future wife would have the same views as me and the more I got to understand others I saw the possibility of that dropping to zero and I’m not just talking about waiting till marriage. but maybe I have too high of expectations, I probably do but we’re all different. when I was young I was told that some day you will meet your wife and your wife is suppose to be the person your suppose to be with forever. This how I think now i’m sure I would think differently if for example I had sex with someone who wasn’t going to be my potential wife because we broke up then I would think a lot differently and I really don’t want something like that to happen. but I just wanted to know what other people think about a subject like this how do you think about all of this, there’s no such thing as a whore? sex is a natural thing? it doesn’t matter? I’d really just like to know with reasons.

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Could This Be A Book…opening?


Please tell me what you think and if its gripped you to want to find out more and gained your interest?
thanks all!!
The Real Life Of A Punter And Escort
I guess one of the strangest tides to mankind is our relationship to sex, how it can defy,shape and even break us as humans, a power that we have no control over but yet we lust for it in many different ways. The very nature of what inspired me to create this book was the secret market in which myself all walks of people indulge in secrecy. The secret life of Punters and Escorts. I could describe myself as an ordinary man, family, well paid job, 2 cars and house in rural Cheshire and all the trimmings which places me perfectly into British Society but what makes myself “Normal” to myself…is controversial to what you may think as a “normal” man. Besides the point of normality one thing that is the same between Punters is that it draws all men and woman into a spiral of lies, guilt and decent is controlling our urges to have what we want, when we want and keep it separate to society and our own mind.
Central Manchester, Hilton Hotel -11pm Friday (Myself)
I walked out of her room clutching my helmet and keys and with that a false promise that I had made in her hotel room. The whole experience of sex this time felt unethical, boring and easy from start to finish i had the fix I craved and i had become accustomed to it. I could see the hotel reception from the landing, as we walked down from her room in silence together I felt the next stage of awkwardness, saying goodbye…I kissed her on the cheek as i sign of good manners and made some on the spot lie that I would text her as soon as I arrived home. As I turned the revolving door out of the Hotel into the Manchester nightlife it was so abrupt I could see normality, real life people, interactions between lovers and friends music and atmosphere.I solemnly zipped my coat up and pushed my way through the streets to the back of hotels car park and climbed on my bike. The thought had occurred that I was an addict, not to sex, but the experience of getting it with escorts. The thought has been in the back of my mind, nipping at my heels as I backed ever closer to the cliff of regret in my mind, it felt like I was at the point of no return. For one minute I am not saying doing what I have done from day 1 has ended up like this. It has been one of the best rushes and thrills I have ever experienced, the best possible way I can put this to you graphically is if you want and woman with a big pair of breasts, blonde hair, size 10 and a large bum and to speak Russian and you want to dress her in a french maids outfit and have sex with her bent over a bath…. you can! Most people imagine the thought and masterbate or get sexual gratification from just the vivid thoughts they imagine and it stops their. But what if i was to tell you can have that experience for real…many people would not think to pass the opportunity up, so we have crossed the barrier that you can have your fantasy for real, so what is stopping most people, its the thought of one simple word “Prostitute” you mention that and the fantasy is quickly for most people stopped dead in its track. That night as I sat on my motorbike texting my partner and planning my journey out of Manchester busy city centre I realised to myself I wanted to stop, I did not want this anymore but the story’s I have to tell you will open your eyes to the “real” life of escorts and punters with emails, interviews and my own experience and giving you what you could call “The real secret diary” of and punter and escort who has experienced it all and only just turned 21….

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What Is Wrong With Our Once “awesome” Sex-life?


My girlfriend and I (we are a gay couple) have been dating for almost a year and a half. When we first got together, our sex life was healthy–If not a little TOO healthy, if you catch my drift. We had sex at least once a day. If we got busy with life and work, it would dwindle down to every three days or so, and we thought that was insane. We couldn’t get enough of each other.
Now, over a year later, so much has changed. We’ve been through many homes and jobs, making mistakes and trying to find our niche in this world. It’s been a stressful year, to say the least.
When all of this stress first came on is when I first noticed our sex life becoming less and less satisfying. At that time, I understood it. Even though I myself would rather have sex and embrace the fact that at least we have each other during hard times, I understood her not wanting to as much.
I watched it dwindle down from every few weeks…to every month or so…to every couple of months…and now it has been five months. When I look up things about other couples having intimacy problems, they all say it’s been a month or two. But five months? Isn’t that a little scary?
Our lives are much less stressful now. Our money problems are nearly obsolete, and both of us are about to finally go back to school (full-paid, with no worry of paying back loans or not having enough to cover tuition.) So I know that it cannot be a stress factor anymore. Now, she is somewhat overweight. She has absolutely no self-confidence, and often calls herself awful names.
No matter how much I tell her that she is beautiful and sexy (because she truly is), she still thinks so poorly of herself. And I feel that if she would only let me make love to her, I could show her how gorgeous that she is. But time and time again, she turns me down.
She tells me that it’s not me. She says that it is absolutely nothing to do with me, and that she finds me more attractive than anyone she has ever seen. She sees how this is making me break down, how it is hurting me, but she won’t even make an effort. I feel so unattractive that I can’t even look at myself in the mirror. She’s making me want to starve myself and start dressing in ways that I would normally not ever dress, because I just want her to be attracted to me again.
Now before anyone says “she is cheating on you” I want you to know that I have already considered that. I’ve already accused her of it. Of course, I could be wrong, but from what I can tell, she has been faithful. Before we even got together, she was my best friend because I knew her to be the most honest, trust-worthy person I ever met.
And also, I’d prefer answers that don’t have to do with “spice it up!” because honestly, nothing is wrong with the mechanics of our sex-life. We’re lesbians. We know how to satisfy each other. What’s wrong with the sex is the lack of it.
I just want to know what could be wrong with her…or me…that’s causing this to be so long and drawn out. It seems silly to me to end a relationship just because my partner lacks sex drive. But I am a woman. I need touched. I need to feel wanted. I need to feel special. I wait on her and her friends hand and foot and do everything she could ever possibly need. All I want is my basic human needs fulfilled. Not every day. Not even every week. Just more often than every few months.
Any help?

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My Own Experience Of A Secret World… I Want To Publish It, What Do You Think?


Please tell me what you think and if its gripped you to want to find out more and gained your interest?
thanks all!!
The Real Life Of A Punter And Escort
I guess one of the strangest tides to mankind is our relationship to sex, how it can defy,shape and even break us as humans, a power that we have no control over but yet we lust for it in many different ways. The very nature of what inspired me to create this book was the secret market in which myself all walks of people indulge in secrecy. The secret life of Punters and Escorts. I could describe myself as an ordinary man, family, well paid job, 2 cars and house in rural Cheshire and all the trimmings which places me perfectly into British Society but what makes myself “Normal” to myself…is controversial to what you may think as a “normal” man. Besides the point of normality one thing that is the same between Punters is that it draws all men and woman into a spiral of lies, guilt and decent is controlling our urges to have what we want, when we want and keep it separate to society and our own mind.
Central Manchester, Hilton Hotel -11pm Friday (Myself)
I walked out of her room clutching my helmet and keys and with that a false promise that I had made in her hotel room. The whole experience of sex this time felt unethical, boring and easy from start to finish i had the fix I craved and i had become accustomed to it. I could see the hotel reception from the landing, as we walked down from her room in silence together I felt the next stage of awkwardness, saying goodbye…I kissed her on the cheek as i sign of good manners and made some on the spot lie that I would text her as soon as I arrived home. As I turned the revolving door out of the Hotel into the Manchester nightlife it was so abrupt I could see normality, real life people, interactions between lovers and friends music and atmosphere.I solemnly zipped my coat up and pushed my way through the streets to the back of hotels car park and climbed on my bike. The thought had occurred that I was an addict, not to sex, but the experience of getting it with escorts. The thought has been in the back of my mind, nipping at my heels as I backed ever closer to the cliff of regret in my mind, it felt like I was at the point of no return. For one minute I am not saying doing what I have done from day 1 has ended up like this. It has been one of the best rushes and thrills I have ever experienced, the best possible way I can put this to you graphically is if you want and woman with a big pair of breasts, blonde hair, size 10 and a large bum and to speak Russian and you want to dress her in a french maids outfit and have sex with her bent over a bath…. you can! Most people imagine the thought and masterbate or get sexual gratification from just the vivid thoughts they imagine and it stops their. But what if i was to tell you can have that experience for real…many people would not think to pass the opportunity up, so we have crossed the barrier that you can have your fantasy for real, so what is stopping most people, its the thought of one simple word “Prostitute” you mention that and the fantasy is quickly for most people stopped dead in its track. That night as I sat on my motorbike texting my partner and planning my journey out of Manchester busy city centre I realised to myself I wanted to stop, I did not want this anymore but the story’s I have to tell you will open your eyes to the “real” life of escorts and punters with emails, interviews and my own experience and giving you what you could call “The real secret diary” of and punter and escort who has experienced it all and only just turned 21….

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