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I’m Not Accepted In Circle Of Friendship?


There’s a group of Canadian cosplayers who are close friends to each other and active on various social networks. I have a lot in common with them, and I really like them. I’ve tried to contact each one of them individually without receiving any reply. They won’t let me into their circle of friendship. I’m not the only one either, they are ignoring other people too who have waited weeks for a reply. I’m beginning to feel a bit frustrated and hopeless. I don’t understand why they won’t say a word to me.
Is this how Canadians usually behave towards strangers? Can you please give me your opinion on this?
I’m not following a specific person, I have friends of my own, and have no trouble communicating with other people around the world. I’m a nice guy and people really like me.

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Traveling The Usa For Jesus?


okay i’m 22 and became Christian 2 years ago.. since then it has been very hard finding my “niche” in life, as well as a loyal group of likeminded radical believers..
anyways, this past summer i went on a 2 week discipleship school.. it had about 300 people and i was hoping it would lead me to friendship.
i ended up not making ANY real friends because almost everyone came with a group of friends, and i came alone.
anyways, when i got home from this 2 week school, this girl responded to an old-ish email of mine who ran a ministry on Warped Tour (2 month long music festival in the USA). i emailed her in hopes of ultimately asking if i can join them on warped tour.
to my huge surprise, she said i could join them on warped tour…
i figured they’d have tons of people asking if they could join and hit the road with them and travel the USA… the weird thing is NOBODY asked. so she said i could join if i want.
should i take my chance on this? the ONLY reason i want to do it is to impact peoples lives. do you think i should do it?

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Traveling The Usa For Free?


okay i’m 22 and became Christian 2 years ago.. since then it has been very hard finding my “niche” in life, as well as a loyal group of likeminded radical believers..
anyways, this past summer i went on a 2 week discipleship school.. it had about 300 people and i was hoping it would lead me to friendship.
i ended up not making ANY real friends because almost everyone came with a group of friends, and i came alone.
anyways, when i got home from this 2 week school, this girl responded to an old-ish email of mine who ran a ministry on Warped Tour (2 month long music festival in the USA). i emailed her in hopes of ultimately asking if i can join them on warped tour.
to my huge surprise, she said i could join them on warped tour…
i figured they’d have tons of people asking if they could join and hit the road with them and travel the USA… the weird thing is NOBODY asked. so she said i could join if i want.
should i take my chance on this? the ONLY reason i want to do it is to impact peoples lives. do you think i should do it?

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How To Gain My Best Friend Back And Make Things Fun Again?


Ok, so I’m a junior in high school, a guy, and 17. And I’ve really never been the sort of person to affiliate myself with exchanged students, but I met a German exchanged student at the beginning of this year, his name is Marcel. We literally clicked, and started becoming best friends very fast. Me and him literally did everything together and we would stay at eachothers houses every single weekend, literally. It was so much fun. I’ve had horrible experiences with losing people in my life, all of my other best friends have literally died. And I’ve never had a friendship as great as this one. We continued to grow closer, and I remember all the time he would tell me he gets in fights with his host mom and stuff. Then one day at the beginning of February, he got in a huge fight with her. And so he decided to find a different family. He couldn’t find one. And then I thought, it would be so cool of he lived me. Just my best friend, we’d be like brothers. And so he moved in with me in February. He was soooooo excited and so was I! And we thought it was the coolest thing when he moved in. We hung out every day, talked non stop late into the nights, had our girlfriends over and backed eachother up so we wouldn’t get in trouble with my parents, even though I don’t like his girlfriend, and he doesn’t like mine, we support eachother. And then things got weird. He started hanging out with his girlfriend sooooo much. Literally everyday he would bring her over. And they’re relationship grew. But I lost my girlfriend. And so then I started feeling left out and that he didn’t like to hang out with me as much anymore. It made me feel horrrrible. I tried to tell him they hang out too much and he just got mad at me. And his girlfriend’s friends thought the same too. Things just started changing, he became more short with me, and didn’t want to do anything but sit in our room. I didn’t get it. He used to be so much more excited and pumped to go to parties with me or play video games etc. I didn’t know what I did wrong. Anyways, his parents visited from Germany last week and they stayed in a house near my house. And me and my family got to meet them and stuff. And while his parents were here, his girlfriend randomly and viciously dumped him. Out of nowhere. Because she was talking to some other guy. And so he got into an extremely bad mood for a long time. He slowly talked to her, and they’re kinda together right now, but not dating. She’s a piece of **** and it makes me mad she could make him so depressed like that. And he didn’t believe me when I told him that she was talking to some other guy. He ALWAYS trusted me, and we told eachother everything. But I had been hiding a secret. I keep getting fevers and night sweats and joint pains and infections. So I brought myself to get some blood work, and the hospital believed to see leukemia. I was devastated because so many people in my life have died from cancer. I didn’t know what to do, so I just went and told him looking for support, just like I supported him through his tough break up. He was in shock at first, but then he started saying that I’m putting pressure on him, and that it shouldn’t begin responsibility to babysit him or something? All I wanted was a shoulder to lean on. And this just made me more angry, and the night I told him me and him were going to a party. He decides to bring that stupid girl. I didn’t want to party at all. I just wanted to go home and talk to him. But he didn’t care. He wanted to hang out with that no good whore and not support his friend. It pissed me off. I just pretended that the cancer wasn’t bothering me anymore because he was just getting mad and I didn’t know what I did. Did I do something wrong? I thought me and him were so close. We’re always talking or doing something fun. He thought it was ok. And then he flat out ditched me and took that girl with him somewhere and left be bawling my eyes out thinking I was going to die. After all that, he began hanging out with this other kid I don’t like, he doesn’t want to do anything fun with me, he just wants to do homework. I only have a limited time left with him before he leaves. I am visiting him in Germany next year, but I won’t get to see my best friend for a long time. I just want things to be fun again, and for him to actually like talking and hanging out with me. So I need help, do you think what he did was just a little messed up:/? And I tried confronting him about hanging out with that other kid but he’s still going to. I want my best fiend back to how he used to be. I miss him. Do you have any advice on what I should do? He’s sleeping as I’m typing this, which shows how much interest he has in having fun. It’s Friday..please just tell me how to talk to him to get him back. I’ve never been this close to a friend and he’s like my brother. Sorry

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Hey Girls Help Me Please Best Answer Gets 10 Points?


ok so in high school a group of girls used to follow me around touch me innappropriately just harass and follow for a while. hell they even used to constantly check my fb page and quote my statuses on each others walls and take pictures of me sleeping in class. it was wierd. so we graduated and we lost touch except for the occasional times i posted on thier walls asking why they acted so strangely ro to explain specific actions they took. well time passed and that summer befoe college i was very vulnerable after dealing with some issues from my past one of the girls had began to talk to me through face book and i began to trust her. as time went on i fell for her but told her but she was falling for someone else i was happy for her but sad. then one day i saw her kiss the other guy and my heart actually hurt pysically worrse then anything i ever felt i cut off contact since i couldnt be a good friend or get over her while she was in my life sent her a txt asking her to delete my number from her phone. no response from her. found it strange that she would even txt me back to see why i was cutting her off especially since she was the one and only person i talked to about my past and how badly it messed me up. so i got past the pain and after a few months i got back in touch with her. i began to notice that if i didnt contact her first we wouldnt talk and that the very rare few times she contacted me first she always had friends with her. then she went back to her old harassing stalker ways and with our friendship alreay being rocky and volatile at best i cut her off for another month second i got back in touch i got an aim saying hey whats up they randome keys came across the chat window and then she (her account) begane to talk alot of thrash. i knew that she went comepletely back to her old tricks from highschool once again out to mess with me.so i decided not to dignify her insults with a response and hit her and her group where it hurts access to my fb page i blocked her and anyone affiliated with her. months passed and i slowly unblocked her friends one by one since i made my page completely private. one of them msged me saying how the girl i had cared about missed me and wanted to get in touch. i ignored and blocked her friends again. months passed and my friend contacts me saying the girl i liked (ill call her abby from now on) wanted to talk to me. i unblocked her msged her and went days without a response considering she was so persistant about talking to me but doesnt reply back i got mad i told her everything i thought about her her friends and what she did to me. she finally replied “i wasnt the one trash talking you so calm down u have no reasont o be mad at me” needless to say abby’s msg enraged me so i went off on her saying stuff im not proud of she deserved every foul word i said but i still felt like garbage about it. so another month passed and abby once again contacted me trying to get me to friend her on fb i told her i wasnt the same kid she met in hs i didnt have low selfesteem anymore and i wont be used for some sick game. she said she changed to and that if i added her she wouldnt even try and talk to me. i declined her. since its obvious to me she wants to stalk my page. so my question is ladies do u think given this information that she at any point cared about me or my friendship or has my suspicions about her and her group been right..that i was just a pawn in her twisted game? at this point aside from still kinda being sexually attracted to her (shes pretty cant help it) im done with her dont talk to her dont want to date or hang out with her. i have a low opinion of her and pity her since to me her actions show how weak she is.
so do u girls think she ever cared aboutme or our friendship or was it all a game to her? do u think i took the right steps to end this game i mean no access to my page no kore stalking right?

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Should I Have Different Friends?


I know everyone thinks highschool doesn’t really matter friendship wise, but a lot of the time I feel uncomfortable with my friends. I’m interested in medieval art, classic literature, and contemporary art while they know nothing about anything on those particular subjects and certainly would never accompany me to an art exhibition or look at my art pieces and give me honest, profound feedback instead of just saying, “oh how nice!” and veer off topic to gossip. We have nothing in common and a lot of the time this upsets me because I’m like a foreign person to them. They misinterpret me on a daily basis and get impatient when I try and talk about art or literature. Most of them don’t even read for leisure purposes. I feel like I’m a different species because they don’t understand me at all and don’t try to…
Is that totally normal? I’m I just being picky and weird? I know there are actually people in my school who share interests with me but I don’t really approach me because none of my friends are affiliated with them and they’re part of a whole different group…

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