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Is there a niche that people are overlooking that is a good business to service weddings? ( i know dj is hyper competitive so that is out)

I was recently at a rather fancy wedding recently. The central group was the friends and family of the bride and groom and then there were a large number of affiliates (business partners and a few direct relatives of business partners like me). Id say around 100 attendees. And there was a bar in the room before the dinning room and also a bar in the dinning room. All drinks were free.
I’m wondering what kind of drinks I am supposed to order before the dinner and after the dinner.
For example, I had some white russians before the dinner. Is it bad to order white russians before dinner?

I’m wanting to wear a maxi dress because I’m very self conscious of my legs at the moment, just had knee surgery and I don’t want people to notice my ugly knee / leg brace. The dress is a yellow floral paisley. Its a sweetheart strapless on top and around the waist it bands with yellow sequins, beads & rhinestones. The brides dress is short and they’re having finger type foods at the reception, its very nontraditional and simple, she just wants to get married. Had the dress not had sequins around the waist, I’d buy it in a heartbeat. I do have a second dress option that is also a maxi dress with no sequins or anything flashy. I’m including picture links to both of them, I’d appreciate any help or recommendations! Thank you!
http://www.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=528263&cm_mmc=Google_Feed-_-4-_-48-_-MP448
http://www.dillards.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=301&storeId=301&langId=-1&productId=502561758&linkshare=http://www.shopstyle.com/affiliate

www.wedimg.com is a scam website that has stolen all my information and spammed it to other places. I get phone calls from porn lines now because they sold my information. Do not affiliate yourself with them! The Wedding Photography front is false and made up. WORST EVER!

I love designer fragrances, but most that I’ve been exposed to have been mainstream (as in, perfumes you’d find at Sephora, Macy’s, etc.). I have sampled some niche fragrances, such as Creed and Badgley Mischka, but they did not suit me. I would love to wear a niche white floral (roses, lily of the valley/muguet, jasmine) on my wedding day. Something special, but not so rare that I would have a hard time finding it, or an even harder time paying for it – like Shiseido White Rose.

I would like to get more clients for my wedding caketoppers business. which is the best place to start looking for affiliates (whether they are associated in the wedding business themselves or just random people who can recommend it to their friends and earn some extra money).
are forums the best approach? or would that be considered as spamming?
thanks