Affiliate Marketing Secrets

Polygamy is no stranger to human history, but the practice is widely outdated nonetheless. There are however many remaining polygamist sects, some many generations deep. Regardless of religious desire, the practice is obviously highly detrimental to the genetic diversity of polygamist offspring. So my question is simply “Where do they keep finding these people, and is there a way I can learn this powerful mind control?” I would appreciate answers from practicing polygamists or experts of the various affiliated faiths.

I have a e-commerce site and I would like to expand my social media campaigns.
With twitter, I find it relatively easy – it’s casual, a lot of random people talk to other random people, and each message is so transitory that I feel fine approaching people. (Not ‘selling’ per se, but saying hi or something)
With facebook, I feel like a spammer when I approach a stranger, even when he/she is obviously interested in my niche. I hate cold calling and I feel like one of those cold callers when I approach unknown people on facebook.
It’s especially hard because we’re not a big company known by everybody, and I also don’t have a huge budget with which I can run continuous facebook ads and/or ‘like us and get free stuff’ campaigns.
So my question is: how do people approach potential customers on facebook without being a spammer or spending too much money on it?
Is there a smart way to manage your facebook ad budget?
It is a very general question indeed, but any helpful comments would be appreciated.

Mr. X has always been within the top 5% performance niche in academics and generally performs well to outstanding at jobs.
Mr. X is more an introvert than extrovert. He spends most of the time alone but can get very open once used to new acquaintances.
Mr. X is “aggressive”. Does not invite subversion sometimes real/sometimes perceived and tends to stand out against subversion. He doesn’t kiss behind.
Mr. X isn’t very successful with women. Even after letting guard down, girls are receptive at first then start ignoring X. X tries to bridge the gap then cuts himself from the lady if non-response endures. Basically, he treats her like a stranger.
People tend to fear Mr. X. His naturally stern face coupled with his few words cause most to “avoid” confronting X.
Mr. X-a minority in US-has difficulty securing jobs despite high competence levels and very positive interview feedback from interviewers-when it’s a bad one you know it and they don’t complement it.
Describe Mr. X in whatever trait categories u prefer. Thanks.