I know this is long, but please read the whole thing. My boyfriend and I broke up a little over two months ago and we are still friends but I’m still in love with him. This guy was perfect for me, we were perfect for each other, but his mom told me that I had to break up with him, being that he’s lied to her about us for 6 months and she thinks we are too young to “go out”, and she is my teacher, so she would get me in trouble if I didn’t. So I told him what his mom had said and I said that I love him but we can’t be together like that anymore. All the secrets and lying and we couldn’t be together any other way, so we broke up. That was the last thing I ever wanted to do, and I would give anything to go back to that day, and say screw all these people I love you and we will be together. I love this guy with everything I’ve got and would do anything for him, and he would have done anything for me too, but I don’t think he does anymore. He said he would wait for me and wouldn’t go back on the “market”. Its been a few months and I’ve watched my boyfriend go back to flirting with every girl in sight, including me a little bit, and we are friends now, but I want him to want to be with me again, no matter what the odds. I know I screwed up and I should have told his mom I couldn’t break up with him, or at least keep it a secret from everyone. I just don’t know what to do. Please don’t give me many suggestions to move on. I’ve done that, like for the past few months, and I just don’t want to. I need suggestions on how to get him back, or tell him how I feel. Please help me.
This boy is a minor child living with his mother. His mother doesn’t want him to be in a relationship and she doesn’t want YOU to be in a relationship with him because she’s your teacher.
Stay away from him. His mother is going to make sure you aren’t together so save yourself the heartache of going after him. You can always come back together when you’re both older. I am a teacher and my teenage son is in my school. If there was a girl I taught that wanted to be in a relationship with my son, I would tell her the same thing and since you were both being sneaky about it that would upset me even more.
talk to him that u want him back…girl if u really love him u shouldnt agree to break off with him at that time no matter what people say… if the two of you really loved each other you dont care about people say…. because you are not living to them u are with your boyfriend ..pls be strong..if u just care and listen to what people say who disagree to ur relationship then u really broke up…remember dont sacrifice ur own happiness just because of useless people in this world. fight for him..tell him that u loved him so much and you cant live without him..