I’m in this cca (co curricular activity) with a lot of guys. There’s this guy I have a crush on, Now I have been reading up a lot of whether a guy’s interested in me, but he’s a shy guy. He is also very involved in the cca and has a lot of passion for the cca. Therefore whenever he participates in it, he will be oblivious to me throughout the training sessions. He makes fun of me sometimes on facebook and he seems really disinterested in girls till I realized he knows a lot of pretty girls. He’s usually loud with his friends in the cca but when we are both participating in the same part, he becomes quiet with me. I don’t know if it is because he is shy. He rarely or never talks to me in the cca because girls are rare in the cca. He is also “affiliated” with another girl in the cca and there was a lot of teasing about him liking that girl. I take sneaky long glances at him when he is doing things and once, he caught me and I glanced away quickly though I don’t know whether he noticed. He behaves indifferently to me and concentrates on the cca during the cca activity but he is very friendly and active on facebook. He acts as if I don’t exist in the room but at the same time aware of me.. I don’t know how he feels. Though all the signs are pointing towards him not liking me back too. I need help?
well he showed signs of interests in you and no doubt he is shy about it. i suggest you speak out rather than waiting for him. guys who are shy are very delicate. he’s probably thinks like you too. “does she likes me?” just tell him personally how you feel towards him (face to face) needs a lot of courage though. you won’t know till you ask him personally.
You need to bite the bullet and ask him out. Thats the scary part of not knowing if someone likes you, the fear of rejection. However, your not alone. The rest of the human population experience this same fear when they develop a crush on someone, and we all have to get over it and make a move to find out. Most of us have experienced rejection, it stings, but you gotta hold your head high and get on with your life. If he does like you, you’ll be glad you took the risk. Good luck.
I don’t think he likes you you said he was shy right that maybe the case but he sorta acts like you don’t exist so I think he either just doesn’t notice you that much or he just likes to avoid you. DOn’t worry bout’ it alright ask him out if you want to the worst thing he can say is no.
sorry. he probably doesnt like you