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How To Message A Girl I Think I Creeped Out ?


Hey guys, questions like this may have been asked but this one is slightly different (sorry for length).
Im in university in Canada in third year now and during first year in residence there was this girl on my floor who I thought was quite awesome (high grades, scholarships, social, attractiveness etc…) but never really got to know her too well. We did chat in person now and then and on facebook exchanging birthday wishes (I usually start the convo.) and such over second year summer and the summer just now, although we did lose real contact for much that time.
She’s now is in our schools affiliated business school’s reputed program where I plan on applying this year. About a month ago, I saw her at the school rec. center but didn’t meet her and fb msg’d after saying I saw you there, how are things etc.. and she replied well and I talked to her about her summer jobs and stuff she did (that she posted on fb) and sent another message saying I wasn’t being creepy and she replied no worries and thought I said we should meet up with all other floor mates as well. I finally said that we never got to know each other and we’ll hopefully bump into each other and good luck with your year and ended the convo. (these were private fb messages, not wall posts).
She does have many friends and is social on fb (about 800?) and reallife. About two weeks ago she posted her twitter account link on fb and asked people to follow her to which I did reply ‘lol twitter(i think)’. I remembered and saw that post yesterday again and used my old twitter account (that I never used and coincidentally for the timing) and followed her (she had many about 100 followers) and tweeted to her that its my first follow on twitter and hope to learn how it works and expand my network esp with the students at the business program which I really meant and intend to do.
Next day (now two days ago), she blocked me on twitter and facebook (same username on both accounts). I think I creeped her out now and I really never meant to and want to apologize. But aside, one thing is that I myself am determined and hardworking and ambitious (if she remembers my grades from first year) like she seems to be but I’m not too popular.
Now, I have her mobile number from a while back from her fb post before the block which I think is still her recent one and don’t know if and how to text her. Or should I make another twitter account and apologize, but everyone will be able to see it. Or should I make another fb account and private message her (obviously letting her know its me).
Which is proper and how should I go about apologizing and when should I apologize (been two days now) and ask her if its ok to renetwork simply for connections, as I really want to get to know her ?
Thanks guys, sorry for the repost, really waiting for some good suggestions.

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Dating Someone 5 Years Older?


I’m 20 years old and a 3rd year University student in FL. I’m involved in a mentor program for my major, and was paired with a 25 year old guy, who I’m really starting to like ๐Ÿ™‚
The age difference is no problem for me. I’ve always liked guys who are a few years older, and I’m mature for my age. It seems like a good match. We are both interested in the same things (he graduated from my program a few years ago) although we both have different niche interests.
He is really sweet, very attractive, and oddly quirky. I find him so attractive, but he’s not the kind of guy that all the girls are chasing. I think he likes me too. I’d say we are similarly matched in attractiveness, temperament, and other areas. I really enjoy spending time with him, and always enjoy our conversations. He is so cute, and I can tell he gets nervous sometimes when we talk… I know this might not have anything to do with him liking me, but I like to hope so anyway ๐Ÿ˜‰ I’m really falling for him.
Mentor pairs are not allowed to date while the program is in session (it runs through May) and that’s fine. Neither of us would do anything against this rule, we are both very professional. My fear is that the program will end and we will just remain professional contacts within each others network. I think we could be more than that (and hope we can be!)
I think that (if he knew I liked him) he would make a move, ask me to hang out, etc. aside from professional events we attend together. I think he’s afraid I’d turn him down, or that I’d think he’s too old, etc.
MY QUESTION: How can I subtly let him know I’m interested? I obviously won’t do anything to break rules of the program, but I think I need to plant the seed that I like him before the program ends. The whole relationship is a little awkward because it’s such a professional setting, yet we are both young (and I like to hope) attracted to each other.
How can I test the waters to see if he’s interested in anything more, yet not make things awkward if he doesn’t want anything more from this? I’m one of those girls who always has a little fear that he won’t like me.. I just don’t want it to be awkward if he’s not interested. On the other hand, what if he is interested and we miss out on something great?
And yesโ€”He’s 100% single.

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