HEAR ME OUT! i really like him, he friended me on fb and hes so sweet and friendly. hes treats me difference to all the other jerky guys, and he gives me the timw of day and attention, unlike all the other jerks i persued.
i guess im persuing him cos his brother broke my heart. ( i had a thing for his brother but he snubbed me, i still feel so hurt). he basically slept with me then ignored me and rejected my request on bf.
i felt raw for awhile, so i thought anyone affiliated with him would be jerky, so i was VERY surprised that his brother seems to be giving me a chance. we been talking for a while and he wants me to go on a date with him. should i?
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Should I Date A Guy Whos Been To Jail For Domestic Abuse?
Posted on May 12, 2013.
not worth it
He’s giving you a chance to get beaten up. Wait ’til the friendy bit passes. Some women like being abused, don’t they? I know women like that.
I hope you’re joking. My answer is no, you shouldn’t.
Being in jail for domestic abuse isn’t the issue. You actually sound like you are subconsciously trying to get revenge on him by being snubbed.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Predators are always ‘nice and sweet’ until they get you where they want you.
noo wayy come on what has his brother done that your current fruend cant doseriously use your brain
stay away from him… he can play with ur life also……. basic nature of a person does not change
No. He has done it in the past and he will do it again. They always seem nice at first but that will not last. Do you really want to go through that?
if your not afraid of him then who’s gonna tell you what you should do, when this matter is between the two of you? but if he does do something to you why should anybody help you if you already know his past?
No otherwise people will say they told you so. Seriously, someone had to call the cops on this guy and you want to date him? That doesn’t change overnight, if ever. You don’t know what you’re dealing with. You wouldn’t date a drug addict would you?
He has been jailed for domestic abuse and you still think this ‘relationship’ could stand a chance? Honey lets stand back and look at the situation:
a) he was JAILED for DOMESTIC ABUSE
b) you friended him over Facebook? he could be completely different in real life and you probably wouldnt know until its too late.
c) this seems like a bit of revenge for the brother who snubbed you
I just think you should look at the situation as if its your friends situation and answer it like that.
my opinion, if you havent guessed it yet, is no.
An abuser once is an abuser always.
And they never fail to escalate.
Sure if you dont mind being beat up.
They akwas act swee inthe beginnning, it ishow they real you in. Youhve the luky advantage of knowing forst hand that there is something bad in regard to his temper and teat,ent of women regardless of how sweet he seems.
Dont be a dumbass and ignore your common sense. You are easy prey because you are down and vknerable..prime pickings for an abuser. Exactky what they look for.