Hi, Im 19 and my boyfriend of 1 year has just finished with me. We met when he was working in the market near my school. His friend liked me but I liked him. Any way we are both from Muslim families and that means we don’t get to see each other as much as other couples would. My father has a clothes business and often travels to Europe to buy clothes and I go with him so he can keep an eye on me. Which means that I used to see my boyfriend, once maybe twice a month. We don’t see each other in Ramadan either. I’ve bought him bck clothes a couple of times and we would go to his friends apartment to snatch a couple of hours with each other. Im not allowed a phone so I sort of turn up at the market when I’m free. We’ve kept our relationship secret as his friend liked me. Anyway to get to the point we would only have sex when we met each othere and we’ve only gone out for a coffee once. I’m aware he sees other girls but I thought I was the one he would end up with. He knows how I feel about him but he has never told me how he feels about me. The other week we got into a fight and he ended it, I asked how he could just throw a year away and he said it meant nothing. I sent my friends to his house (I have relatives in his area so can’t be seen) and his Mum answered (big shame as she obviously didn’t know about us) and she laughed in there faces. I’ve gone to the market but he ignores me, it turned out his friend knew all along about us and was laughing at my stupidity. But is it possible that a man could just use you like that for a year?? He is 20. I thought he’d be more grown up than that? Was I really nothing for him? I’m hurting so much, he has already moved on to another girl and I just feel like ****. i asked his friend for his number and he just laughed at me.
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Could You Really Not Love Someone After 1 Year Together? Do I Really Mean Nothing?
Posted on January 15, 2013.
You had me until “he sees other girls”.
Sorry to say, he used you. He has others to choose from, and you weren’t special to him.
I was in love with a guy like this a few years ago. I found out he was seeing others, when I’d had no idea. He didn’t think twice about me when I ended it.
Yes, it is possible that someone could see you for a year and feel nothing. A lot of men do so.
Yes its called getting played, you are a day late an a dollar short!!!!!! first of all you really didnt know this person and you expected. You through your heart out there and he stepped on it like it was not anything. Here real love read the bible , 1 Corinthians 13 chapter 1-13 verse this talks about real love.you really didn;t know him at all. Hey diddle diddle , you was played like a fiddle!!!!BYE!!!!
It sounds like he never took it as serious as you did. When a man was not being serious about it, he can just move on that fast. He also may have been not showing he was hurt and found comfort in their arms. I can’t say much about him for that though. I did the same thing when I broke up with my fiance.
he never loved u in the first place. all he wanted was sex. u were deluded enough to think he loves u. also i think u liked him because he was hot. otherwise why did u not go for his frnd?
Hey lady you are 19 why are you being pushed around by your dad… make your own life and pick your own friends and bfs or stay laden with the past.
Spend some time thinking about how he was when you were together. Was he smiling a lot and did it seem like he enjoyed being with you and holding you? You may have been played but if you spent a lot of time together, it would have been difficult for him to not feel something for you. Guys are good at covering up their feelings. I’m sure you meant something to him but I don’t know how much.
Try not to worry about this too much. We all have relationships that don’t become more than we want. There will be others for you and you’ll learn from what’s happened to you and grow. Good luck.