Affiliate Marketing Secrets

I’m very frustrated. My Adsense account along with $20 income has been cancelled by Google as i had an ad on a page with a clickbank affiliate ad. On another site my Adbrite has been cancelled due to page time out.
I don’t know how to make a go of trying to monetize my sites when at every turn you get shut down by a faceless company who have essentially had free advertising space.
There is a mass of information and success stories, but I’m really confused as all he’ll because it seems impossible to make a go of monetizing my two sites.
Can anyone give me any advice, experience stories etc, i would be so appreciative.
Regards CL

for example on this clothing website:http://www.my-wardrobe.com/paul-joe-sist…
when you hover, you get to see part of a HQ image
how could i get the entire HQ image??
not just on that site but on sites that have this feature in general

I created a social network for LDS people (or Mormons). The website is www.ldscuties.com And so far the only person I could get to join it is my brother. Big woopty-doo. How can I get more Mormons to find my site and actually start using it?

Not necessarily a social network like Facebook, but a niche social network similar to goodreads.com and there would be a lot of downloading of pictures. I understand that I need a website designer, 1-4 good coders, & investors. Is this correct? I want it to be designed well, so I’m guessing this will cost me more.
Also, I need info for a business plan. How would I project yearly profits? I would include small ads on the site, but I have no idea how much that would bring in.
Also, should I ask this question on a “business” category instead of computer programming?
I’ve had a lot of Debbie-downers answer some of my questions, so please let’s pretend this is the best idea ever.

I am thinking about setting up a travel website which offers website visitors information on various locations around the world but I am skeptical about the idea as any affiliate earnings will only come through during the summer right? By the time I have actually created the site, summer 2011 will be over so I will have to wait until next year to see any real results. Am I right in thinking this?

I’m a young living affiliate and I need to make a clickable button on my personal webpage that will send the visitor to the young living site and automatically log them into the site with my id number. How can I do this?