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How Can I Get Myself To Open Up More? Ill Answer Yours :)?


This is describing me pretty much..im 17 btw
I am shy and a lot of girls say im cute ( not directtly but from my two close girls friends) but i dont know how to open up and just be friends with them. I start school on Monday and i wanna try to be more open but i dont know how. My close friends tell me i have great qualities but my qualities are hidden cause of my shyness.
I go to a super small school so I know everyone but i dont have many close friends. im scared cause most of my friends already have their niches and im afraid ill intrude and i wont be able to fit in. I see so many people who are social with everyone and I just dont know how.
I would really like a gf since i havent had one but idk how i can do that if nobody knows of my more in depth qualities and personality.. its just a scary thought stepping out of my comfort zone to meet new ppl
heeres my list describing moi
1. dirty blond/brown hair.. blue/green eyes (depending on my surroundings. i get a lot of compliemnts on the eyes :p)
2. athletic body
3. 5’9 150
4. jockish (baseball, soccer, basketball on school teams)
5. considered a class clown type so i bring out the laughs lol
6. a little on the shy side
7. outgoing once comfortable with people
8. smart
9. caring
10. honest
11. considered a “nice, sweet guy” by most peoples standards
12. protective of friends
13. loves to help others and their problems/issues
14. all types of music are welcomed to my earholes :p
15. loves dogs
16. i dont pick fights unless someone picks a fight with me whether it be physical or verbal
17. i am friendly with all who are friendly with me
18. i look at personalities first
19. i dont smoke pot (never have)
20. i do drink but i have no intention of drinking too much
21. i like going to house parties and just having fun (im not a 24/7 partier but i like to have fun)
22. i have some trust issues which can cause me to come off as clingy but not to the extreme (trust isssues wouldnt effect a relationship most like, only during the bggining at most)
23. i am not experienced (only kissed girls nothing more then that)
24. ive been called dorky (but as a compliment? idk lol)
25. i overthink at times
26. i have trouble meeting new people because of my shyness
27. i try not to cause drama in my life
28. i have a fear of being forgotten which leads me to usually take initiative most of the time (it doesnt give me the chance to let the girl take the initiative over convesations on fb and text and such)
29. i am staightfoward, no games or anything. if u like u ill show it
30. I like being shy but at times i see it as a flaw
31. I am a hard worker and I put passion into eveything i do (job, birthday giifts, whatever)
32. sometimes i take things seriosuly that shouldnt (but only for a second or two so its not too bad)
33. i usually type long and thought out texts
34. im fine with premarital/teenage sex but i wouldnt rush it or revolve a relationship around it

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Does This Sound Like A Good Living Situation To You? For College?


My living situation sucks. i live across the hall from my ex boyfriend and no one lives in this building?
Im a college freshman. I go to school in chicago. I live 20 minutes from the main campus by subway in this university affiliated housing that no one lives in. There are about 2000 students who live in this 18 story building, but it consists of like 4 colleges, and no students interact with people from other colleges because you dont know who is from what college. Its very very antisocial here. No interaction at all really. There are only like 30 kids from my entire college in this building. Its weird. On my floor there is a wing for kids from my college, and there are about 17 of us. They are all video gaming guys. I am one of the only girls, besides my suitemates (one is a big partier and tried to have sex with my ex boyfriend, so clearly i dont interact with her. Shes mean too, and really annoying, and she never talks to me. Then there is my other suitemate who is nice but i dont hang out with her because she is gone a lot from her dorm and always busy)
So really, im the only girl who is ever there in the dorms. I dont mind being the only girl, its just that all the guys are all like one big clique. My ex boyfriend lives right across the hall from me and is like the most popular guy in this wing now. None of the people here talk to me, because of what happened between me and Mike. Once Mike and I broke up, they stopped talking to me. Its really awkward leaving my dorm room and seeing one of them in the hallway because they just see me as his ex girlfriend….and its really awkward because Mike snickers to his friends when he sees me.
I have two months of school left. I dont think im coming back to this college next year. I think im going back home to the east coast next year. But how can i survive the rest of this year? Its so lonely and isolating here. I dont have a roommate anymore. In general, this building is just really anti-social. We arent even allowed to keep our doors open ever. We have to keep them shut at all times.

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I Hate Living Across The Hall From My Ex Boyfriend :(?


My living situation sucks. i live across the hall from my ex boyfriend and no one lives in this building?
Im a college freshman. I go to school in chicago. I live 20 minutes from the main campus by subway in this university affiliated housing that no one lives in. There are about 2000 students who live in this 18 story building, but it consists of like 4 colleges, and no students interact with people from other colleges because you dont know who is from what college. Its very very antisocial here. No interaction at all really. There are only like 30 kids from my entire college in this building. Its weird. On my floor there is a wing for kids from my college, and there are about 17 of us. They are all video gaming guys. I am one of the only girls, besides my suitemates (one is a big partier and tried to have sex with my ex boyfriend, so clearly i dont interact with her. Shes mean too, and really annoying, and she never talks to me. Then there is my other suitemate who is nice but i dont hang out with her because she is gone a lot from her dorm and always busy)
So really, im the only girl who is ever there in the dorms. I dont mind being the only girl, its just that all the guys are all like one big clique. My ex boyfriend lives right across the hall from me and is like the most popular guy in this wing now. None of the people here talk to me, because of what happened between me and Mike. Once Mike and I broke up, they stopped talking to me. Its really awkward leaving my dorm room and seeing one of them in the hallway because they just see me as his ex girlfriend….and its really awkward because Mike snickers to his friends when he sees me.
I have two months of school left. I dont think im coming back to this college next year. I think im going back home to the east coast next year. But how can i survive the rest of this year? Its so lonely and isolating here. I dont have a roommate anymore. In general, this building is just really anti-social. We arent even allowed to keep our doors open ever. We have to keep them shut at all times.

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