Affiliate Marketing Secrets

I have a business idea which could be of value to any dating website entrepreneur.
Where can I find on the internet a online dating business entrepreneurs forum, or find dating website entrepreneurs who would like to collaborate on a newly differentiated dating niche?

I guess what I am saying is, what is your opinion on niche dating websites like this one.

Ewhoring is the strategy of acting or pretending to be for example sexy girl or even a sexy guy (mainly for gay dating sites) to make money by directing people to join a dating website you are affiliated with.
A good example is using fake pictures in a fake ad pretending to be a hot woman, then pick a prey from one of the hundreds of mails you will receive, then deceive this fool into thinking you will meet him and make all his dreams come true. Have him give you a camshow just so you can laugh while he’s in his underpants jerking and then persuade him to sign up — then block the bastard from your msn!!!

I’m a newbie to affiliate marketing & I’ve been studying this since a month. I’m trying to promote a dating website as an affiliate & I’ve signed up for a pay per lead program (i get paid if some one signs up for free) Now i dono how to promote this using free traffic! I’ve tried facebook groups but even though people join the group (they click the link) but they dont sign up for the website.So i thought of using squidoo but then they consider my article as spam & not letting it to publish. So now what should i do? should i go for blogging??? or free website (weebly)?? if blogging is the option how can i promote it? sholud i have to write articles about dating tips or review about websites? but these are the usual.. They dont seem to work now i guess.. Any other great new ideas guys??? I need your help. Anyhelp, ideas, suggestions etc are welcome. hope you can guide me.. thank you!