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Am 24 And Never Had A Boyfriend, Will I Never Find My True One?


When asking why you are still single, I would say that it’s best to look at the obstacles you are facing. Some people just can’t find someone because they are looking too hard. Others are looking with the right amount of effort, just the wrong place/venue. Others might have unrealistic expectations, that are put into place with good intentions, but have the flaw of being too high or narrow.
So, what kind of obstacles have you met in romance? Has it been that nobody sees you that way? Is it that the people who you are attracted to shun or ignore you? Are you forever in the “friend zone”? Do you hate the way you look? Maybe you just don’t fit in at the venue you have been looking. Maybe you need to find a place that is more in-line with your interests.
And that’s the best advice I can give.
I would say that the best way to increase your ability to find companionship is to find your niche. Throw yourself into the things you love. Get good at them. Master them. Join clubs focused on them. Get out, do fun things. Just meet people.
Don’t rely on the internet to find someone. I have a profile on a dating site, and yes I get dates from it. But it’s really more of an art than a science, and it took a LOT of trial and error. Getting out among people, and just being yourself is the best way.
It does not matter what body type you are. I have seen women of every body type in happy relationships. My ex was 420lbs, and would get asked out constantly by guys. In contrast, I know a girl who is cute, petite, fit and she can’t seem to get into a relationship. Nobody wants her. So don’t blame your looks, your weight, or your height. For every type of girl, there are guys who are into you.
As far as those activities I mentioned above go, they give you a time and a place to meet others who share your interests. Do it because you are into those things, and not because you want to “meet someone”. Another enthusiast just might take a liking to you.
In the end, it’s how well you’ve filled out, both emotionally and intellectually, that will attract the right people. If you were looking for a quick bang, you could probably put an ad on craigslist, and have a hundred offers by sunset. But you obviously aren’t after that, or you wouldn’t have posted this question.
Be yourself. Be the best, most awesome, dorky, awkward, artistic, nerdy, whatever, version of yourself. When you are solid in that foundation, you will have boys lining up to date you.
And that’s the best advice I can give.

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Abusive Boyfriend. I Really Need Advice.what Should I Do?


So I’m 18 and have been in a relationship with my bf for a year now. He is generally a nice popular guy, everybody loves and respects him, he also has a very bright future. However, after a few months of dating he started telling me who I should and shouldn’t see. He will not let me hang out with any guys who are friends and he doesn’t approve of many of my girl friends either. But then he took this ‘control’ to the next level by hitting and punching me one night, and forcing me to do things I didn’t want to do. It was awful. Although I had gone out against his will, to meet friends I never expected that kind of response. After it he wouldn’t let me leave our flat for a week and a bit, so my bruises would heal. I know i must seem so weak for not leaving him. But I’m scared- he keeps telling me how nobody would believe me if I ever told. Also, the only thing I can give him credit for is that he does genuinely love me and I him- that’s the worst thing, because I know how hard I would find life without him and he has always tried to make me feel welcome in his friendship group. So deep down he is a nice guy. Also, the group of friends we hang with would all hate me too if I left/told. I can’t leave because he is all I have and he knows that. Also, he is a pretty powerful guy in terms of influence, so if i did tell, I’m sure he would ensure that he was never affiliated with the allegations anyway.

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Boyfriend Hit Me… Do You Think He Would Do It Again?


So im 14 and hes 15. Hes Affiliated with a local gang and hes very tough. Hes really comtrolling and two nights ago we were in his basement and he told me to do something and i said “no” so he hit me and he was like “never say no to me again” This morning he texted me saying he gets mad easily and that he will never do it again but i have to listen. Do you think it was really a one time thing or will he do it again?

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If Ur Boyfriend Dressed Up Like A Girl And Loved It Would It Be Okay?


lately ive been feeling very depressed because i constantly have these desires to dress up like a girl. ever since i can remember ive always fantasized what i would be like if i was a girl instead of a guy. im a 23 year old straight guy that’s into working out at the gym and everything normals guys like to do but deep down im holding onto a secret that ive only very recently told one of my female friends but shes not in my life anymore. my question is, are their many girls out there that would be completely okay with their boyfriend if he like doing this kind of thing? my ex girlfriend dressed me up once and it made me feel so happy. im not sure if she was that into it but it was so fun for me and i felt so great 🙂 we went shopping together and bought girl clothes for me. lingerie and sexy outfits and i even bought a couple wigs online and she got me makeup lol. i know this sounds weird and everything but we were totally messing around and having fun that night dressing me up and making me look like a girl lol. im a good looking guy and i actually looked really pretty as a girl! it made me feel so beautiful 🙂 i had a long, thick, dark brown wig on with wavy hair styled up in the back and i got to have really dark mascara and pink sparkling lip gloss. my eyelashes looked so great cuz i have naturally long ones lol. she also had me put on black fishnet stockingss with bows on them and red leggings things underneath and this like sexy santa outfit :))) she took pictures of me and i took some of myself and my greatest fantasy finally came true haha. i looked SUPER sexy and pretty in all of the pictures too! 😀 for years and years i always dreamed of having a girl give me a makeover and help me dress up in heels and a wig and have girl-time. i think maybe its my way of escaping from everyday life or something but i just cant help wanting to do it no matter how hard i try, i think about it a lot :/ i feel really alone with this and i cant talk to ANYONE about it 🙁 your opinions are really appreciated and if someone can help me feel better with this that would be really nice. i dont know what to do about these feelings anymore. im seriously a TOTALLY normal guy besides this. i work 6 days a week in the freezing cold as a marketing specialist and ive become the lead guy in my department. maybe if im really lucky some nice person on here will talk to me so i can get some of this off my chest? i havent even slept yet tonight. thanks guys and please dont leave any rude comments i know this is a strange question i just dont know where else to turn :/

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Guy Dressing Up Like A Girl…would A Girl Still Accept Her Boyfriend If She Found Out He Loved To Crossdress?


lately ive been feeling very depressed because i constantly have these desires to dress up like a girl. ever since i can remember ive always fantasized what i would be like if i was a girl instead of a guy. im a 23 year old straight guy that’s into working out at the gym and everything normals guys like to do but deep down im holding onto a secret that ive only very recently told one of my female friends but shes not in my life anymore. my question is, are their many girls out there that would be completely okay with their boyfriend if he like doing this kind of thing? my ex girlfriend dressed me up once and it made me feel so happy. im not sure if she was that into it but it was so fun for me and i felt so great 🙂 we went shopping together and bought girl clothes for me. lingerie and sexy outfits and i even bought a couple wigs online and she got me makeup lol. i know this sounds weird and everything but we were totally messing around and having fun that night dressing me up and making me look like a girl lol. im a good looking guy and i actually looked really pretty as a girl! it made me feel so beautiful 🙂 i had a long, thick, dark brown wig on with wavy hair styled up in the back and i got to have really dark mascara and pink sparkling lip gloss. my eyelashes looked so great cuz i have naturally long ones lol. she also had me put on black fishnet stockingss with bows on them and red leggings things underneath and this like sexy santa outfit :))) she took pictures of me and i took some of myself and my greatest fantasy finally came true haha. i looked SUPER sexy and pretty in all of the pictures too! 😀 for years and years i always dreamed of having a girl give me a makeover and help me dress up in heels and a wig and have girl-time. i think maybe its my way of escaping from everyday life or something but i just cant help wanting to do it no matter how hard i try, i think about it a lot :/ i feel really alone with this and i cant talk to ANYONE about it 🙁 your opinions are really appreciated and if someone can help me feel better with this that would be really nice. i dont know what to do about these feelings anymore. im seriously a TOTALLY normal guy besides this. i work 6 days a week in the freezing cold as a marketing specialist and ive become the lead guy in my department. maybe if im really lucky some nice person on here will talk to me so i can get some of this off my chest? i havent even slept yet tonight. thanks guys and please dont leave any rude comments i know this is a strange question i just dont know where else to turn :/

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Is It Reasonable To Have Male Visitor Restrictions?


In female student housing either affiliated with campus or private and off-campus settings, is it reasonable for housing authorities, private landlords, or even residents to impose rules restricting male visitors from staying in the place of residence?
I ask this because I am a female student living off-campus. I had a roommate who backed out of a lease because she wanted her boyfriend to be able to sleep over.
For you as an American, is it strange or not so uncommon if people have visitor restrictions like these?

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