Honestly, i love my sister to death but now i feel like i crushed her dreams. She told me she wanted to take vocal, guitar, and piano private lessons. I told her that would be very expensive and time consuming considering shes also in concert band, marching band, and dance. She then told me she wants to get a laptop and video camera and post covers on youtube, and she wants our parents to buy that because she has no money. She said ahe wants to grow upmto be a famous singer and so i had her sing for me and trust me, nobody would want to listen to that on an album. I told her the truth and she started crying. I told her maybe singing isnt her niche in life and she told me to f*ck myself. I just dknt want her gettig embarrased and thinkig shes such a good singer. Now i feel really bad and i feel like im crushig her dreams but i just told the truth. What should i do?
You were just being honest and probably saved your parent’s money.
Honestly, I hate false flattery. Tell your sister to just get over it! She can be way better with practice. Just say maybe she’s not ready.
Try to reason with her. She obviously is mad at you for no reason. You didnt even say it rudely. I think you were right to do that. I wouldnt want my little sister embarrasing herself either!
maybe you should apologize to her, its not nice to crush her dreams like that, its better for her to find that all out on her own
In all honesty, she seems really spoiled and rotten. She need to realize that we can’t all be famous, and that we have to find our niche in life.